A Theory On Love


During a lifetime, our heart is generally the shelter for many people, being the most important ones our lovers. We have many, many loves, and there are five kinds of them that we cannot avoid, at most we can be lucky enough to one person as the vessel for more than one of the following “categories” of love.

The first love: we all have a first love, some before than others, and some more gleeful than the rest of us. Our first love is the one why we actually start believing in love, is the one we can feel our heartbeats going out of pace whenever we see that person. The first love is our real first kiss, the one we feel like teenagers for real and the one we do silly things like naming our imaginary-future children.

The love that destroys us: is the one we fall in love with and we get ourselves broken by. Is the one that makes us feel like zombies and makes us bitter as lime. We drink to this love, and we drink away, then we spiral out of control a little bit more and then we survive it. Is the one love that afterwards makes us want to tattoo ourselves “what doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger”.

The love of our live: Is the one love that changes all about you. The one that you actually hope to be with the rest of your life, the one you would really take the bullet for. This person becomes the love of your life after you’re apart from this him and you think to yourself “oh… this takes the whole missing crap to a whole new level”. The love of your life has a couple of superpowers, he can make it all better with a smile and take a heartache to a whole new level. He’s the one you’ll really love forever, no matter what.

The love that put us together: life sucks hard enough to wear you out like a leather belt in someone fat’s waist. Well, sometimes there’s someone that comes along the way to put us back together and makes us humans once again. This person earns our heart in the good way and for the first time craziness is not a factor in the relationship.

Our true love: Is the one that we end up with. It could be classified in one of the categories already mentioned and he simply could be the prince between the frogs we’ve been kissing for that it seems a lifetime. Our true love has a little bit of everything, he could be described as a “sanely crazy person”. Is the person that’s going to rock our world until the end of the time and he’s the one. You don’t lose nor let go your true love, it comes around sooner or later because it’s simply meant to be.

How many loves have you met so far?

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