From A Wanderluster To The Other Lost Souls

Sex and dating. When we think of those two words, inevitablely we think of a bunch of rules of what we are supposed to do and what we are not. Somehow, we are taugh by society that those two activities are not meant to be involved. We have plenty of sayings telling us not to have sex in the first 3, 5 or 10 dates. They say the other person won't buy the cow if he gets the milk for free. However, what if the milk is outta this world? Does sex in the first date magically makes you a whore and dooms that possible relationship for good. Is it because in the first date you're supposed to get that mind-blowing kiss under the rain or in the front of the door? Or is it because is it possible that the other person isn't mature enough to shut out the remarks made by his friends? Are we really that insecure to care about that other people say or what other people think is the right thing to do?  What if sex in the first date is the only possible result for an incredible hu...

           Dating  is a complicated dance as it is. One wrong move and you and your date are out of sync, which can ruin the whole date.  Then you have to take things to an entirely new level when it comes to dating across country lines. At the moment I am studying in the US which is like an entirely different planet!            One thing to remember is that countries have widely varied dating etiquette. In Scotland things are a lot more relaxed that America. You can go on a date and see how things go; in the US it’s more like an unwritten invitation to start a relationship.             1. It’s important to know what both parties expect from the date. Now I’m not talking marriage and kids, I’m more saying is it casual or are there more feelings involved. Starting on the same page can make all the difference. For example I was asked out for a drink by a guy in my clas...

A couple of weeks ago a 19-years-old girl asked me one of those things that puzzle you:  Is it a good idea to have a fuckbuddy?  My first impulse was to say  Yes! Often sex and no relationship's duties? Duh!  However, just when I was opening my mouth to give her my answer I realized something; is it not that simple. In less than a year there were launched two movies related to the idea of having fuckbuddies, and if they were right about something is that in the end one of the counterparts always ends up mixing feelings. What those movies don't tell you is that in most of the cases, the other counterpart does not. There is a huge chance that one of the people involved in those friendships with benefits simply keep their heart and sexual impulses absolutely separeted. There are other times when both of them have feelings for the other, but because of the stupid  "rule" of keeping it casual, they never tell their feelings and the friendship ends up anyways.  ...